EMO Talk#1

"If you want to be happy, don't follow your feelings. Let your feelings follow you. God has given you the power to control your feelings."

HOW? By using handles.
There are 3 handles which we are going to use. RULES, FOCUS, GIFT.

RULES:
What are your rules of happiness? These are the conditions you require before you give yourself a happy heart. There are 2 kind of rules of happiness. SOPHISTICATED & SIMPLE.

Examples:
Before you let yourself happy, you want to have a house and lot first which you owned and not mortgaged. And you want to have a Mazda3 or Audi4 before being happy. You want to have an Iphone5 first to be happy. That is a SOPHISTICATED rule.

You wake up in the morning, you see that there is a breakfast at the table. You saw your family is healthy today and that the weather is good. You felt happy. That is a SIMPLE rule.

Therefore, YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR RULES OF HAPPINESS! We aren't saying that be contented of a wooden house without a security ans safety. Nor we aren't saying that you must not dream of buying your dream car to be happy. We're just saying that, let simple things help you to be happy. So that when BIG things came, you are more than a HAPPY PERSON. :)

"Tie your happiness to your development."